I had a technical interview on zoom with the team leader which is a great person. Then I had an HR interview which was also great. But then the third interview with the head of service devision was completely inappropriate. He tried to sell me on a customer they wanted me to be at, and not on the job i originally wanted and known about, assuming that "i might think on kids because i am getting married soon and i need more flexible hours". I left and cried. Later i found out the team leader and cyber security department manager were shocked he said that to me, and didn't know of his plans to do so. They told me that i don't have to except and i can insist on the original job and they will support me. The 4th interview was with all of them and HR manager, she basically eliminated what the 2 managers told me prevoisly, and threatened me that the company has needs and if i want to be a part of that i have to except the new job i didn't want.